I believe all ladies are a beautiful mess; blame it on hormones or whatever.
So I won't generalized; I'll tell why I consider myself a mess, a beautiful one that is.
I can be warm, kind, sweet, loving, honest, giving, calm, quite, strong, fun, sane, brave, smart, caring, easy going... BUT it seems that all this qualities didn't come alone, they brought their opposites and I can welcome them just as well.
So sometimes I just think that I'm crazy for all the contradictions in my life, but I'm not. This is normal, or at least I convinced myself it is.
Anyway normal is overrated!